G Spot. Let’s find it!

G-spot, one of the most controversial topics among the sexually active community. Does the G-Spot really exist? How to locate it and make your woman more satisfied when making love? Let’s know about the history and what experts say about it.

A woman can experience orgasm in 5 different ways mainly.

1. Clitoral Orgasm
2. Vaginal Orgasm
3. Anal Orgasm
4. Combination of any of the above
5. Erogenous Orgasm.

In this article, we will be focusing mainly on #2, Vaginal Orgasm and the G-Spot. Clitoral Orgasm is the orgasm feeling experienced by a woman when the clitoris is stimulated with fingers or by any other kind of sexual activity. In this process, the end of the vagina swells or balloons out.  Vaginal orgasm is achieved by lesser percentage of women when their G-spot is stimulated well either with penetrative sex or with fingers etc. Some women are not very comfortable when their G-Spot is touched/stimulated.

Where is the G-Spot, how to find it?

The G-Spot refers to an area inside the vagina. This is not any particular organ by itself. It is believed to exist at a depth of 5 cm to 8 cm inside the vagina. One can try by inserting their or their partner’s fingers into the vagina and rubbing/stimulating the upper roof/wall of the vagina while the woman lies down on her back. When correctly stimulated, the tissues around the urethra start to swell in response. The swollen area (can be felt by the fingers) is the G-Spot. If the woman feels uncomfortable or feels irritated, it is better to leave out the quest for her G-Spot and concentrate on other activities. Women whose urethral portion starts swelling may feel the urge to urinate but very quickly they start feeling the sensual pleasure.

Female Ejaculation by stimulation of the G-Spot

Unlike Clitoral orgasm, in the orgasm experienced by stimulation of the G-Spot, the cervix of the woman pushes down into the vagina. Different types of liquids are expelled from their urethra during this moment.  They may include urine, squirt (a diluted form of urine) and female ejaculate. It is common for some women to leak urine during sex. However, the woman has to observe herself if she is leaking urine during coughing, sneezing, lifting weights because, that will be because of a condition called ‘Urinary Incontinence’.

“Squirting” expels fluids that resemble urine and it is believed that it is caused due to the contraction of muscles surrounding the bladder during orgasm.

How does the female ejaculate/squirt look like?

Women who had experienced orgasm and squirt due to the stimulation of the G-Spot said that the squirt was like a watery, little milky coloured. Most of them ejaculated few millilitres of squirt. (Note – Some women may not ejaculate visible amount of squirt but they do feel the orgasm). One laboratory analysis revealed that this female ejaculate resembled the secretions from the male prostate. This lead many gynecology experts believe that the ejaculate may be produced by female prostate once called “Skene’s Gland”.

What exactly is the G-Spot?

As said, G-Spot doesn’t refer to any particular organ inside the vagina. It is believed to be a junction where the clitoris, urethra and the vagina meet inside the body.  Stimulating the area where the female prostate and the clitoris meet can result in female orgasm. Female prostate lies surrounding the urethra anterior to the vagina. Due to anatomy of clitoris, stimulating the G-Spot may also stimulate the internal portions of the clitoris resulting in orgasm.

Does G-Spot really exist?

Yes. While the junction termed G-Spot exist in every woman, stimulating that area may be pleasurable for some women while for others may feel uncomfortable. Absence of sensual feelings when G-Spot stimulation is done doesn’t put a woman into sexually dysfunctional category. Every woman will have her own sweet spots and it is up to her partner to figure it out and enjoy the pleasures.

Finding the location of the G spot?

This is a very tough and difficult task for a person to find and locate the G spot and the job becomes tougher when the spot is not available or marked on the map of the human body. The job is tough but it does not mean that it is totally impossible and finding the location of this g spot becomes much more easier for a woman, when she is going for self exploration rather than trying to locate the spot at the time or partnered sexual activity. 

When you are trying to locate this G spot you should first relax yourself and your body and as you start to explore the body of yours, you need to try those things that you feel is best for you. Whenever you feel that you are ready, you should start massaging the opening of your vagina before you try to insert either your fingers or any kind of sex toy. 

As soon as you put in your finger or the sex toy, you should be lifting them towards your belly button and you have to do this in the come hither motion and you should also remember the fact that you are not trying to get to a specific button instead you are trying to find out what is best for you in that general area or region of the vagina. 

You need to repeat the motion as you start to feel that the sensation has started to build and as it grows you need not focus on the in and out movement instead you are advised to completely focus and be attentive to that area. 

There are several erogenous zones in a woman and the preference of a woman regarding the erogenous zone can differ a lot from person to person and as far as this orgasm is considered you should know that there is no right or wrong way to orgasm and it follows the same not one size fits all trend. 

You should also consider the fact that not all the women are going to get satisfied with the stimulation of their G spot and this is said to be completely normal and when you are masturbating you should know it is totally normal and can be considered as a healthy part of any kind of relationship. This is said to be a way of self exploration and when you are doing this you can know about your preferences and when you know about yourself you can instruct your partner about the same and can enjoy doing sex by getting what you enjoy the most.

The best sex positions for the stimulation of the G spot: 

When you are thinking of getting your G spot stimulated at the time of intercourse you should know that you can try certain sex positions that can help you to achieve it very easily and can work out best for you. You are suggested to try those sex positions that will allow you to control the movements at the time of intercourse and will help you to figure out what kind of stimulation you are going to enjoy the most.

There are so many sex positions available that you can try to experience the best stimulation of your G spot but given below are the best sex positions that will help you to stimulate the G spot the most:

• Cowgirl
• Doggy style
• Closed missionary position